I’m Talking to YOU — as an Actual Person
For 11 years, I have listened. I have consistently and methodically asked thousands of LGBTQ singles about their dating lives. Sometimes for up to an hour…
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How to Meet Now Without AI and IRL
Hurry, you eligible LGBTQ singles. Summer travel is at its peak in years. That means the opportunity to see real people in real life.
Match Me With a Millionaire
Said no one, absolutely no one, after 10 years of interviewing thousands of eligible LGBTQ singles. Most are in the US, but I have also had the privilege of…
Start Dating Again: Your Guide, Gay Men & Women
When is the right time to get out there again, so to speak? Have you gone through a breakup? A divorce? Lost a longtime love…
Choosing Your Gay/Lesbian Matchmaker (don’t get burned!)
In the 10 years as a Certified Matchmaker, owning my own company, and introducing vetted quality singles, I have some updated tips for you…
Three Bloopers on a First Date
For more than nine years, I’ve taken live feedback calls the day after a first-date introduction. And I'll be honest, it's not always good. With only one ch…
Dating With Intention Not Intensity
Being purposeful is admirable. Being restrictive can be off-putting. What kind of dater are you? When we as humans are goal setting and results-oriented...
Seeking: Interesting and Interested
Sure, it’s true when Certified Matchmakers interview an eligible single, we cover all the parameters - age range, height, body type, education, career…
My Favorite Zoom During PRIDE – Not What You Think
As a straight ally working hard to own and operate an LGBTQ matchmaking company, I have always engaged in annual PRIDE celebrations to support the community. This year looked a bit different...
Single During Shelter in Place Even as It Lifts – The Plan
Stop literally counting the passing or passed weeks, the days, the missed events, or holiday norms. Just stop. And wake up to a new day, with new determination, and start looking FORWARD. Decide today that you're either committing to…
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