H4M Blog

Said no one, absolutely no one, after 10 years of interviewing thousands of eligible LGBTQ singles. Most are in the US, but I have also had the privilege of…

When is the right time to get out there again, so to speak? Have you gone through a breakup? A divorce? Lost a longtime love…

In the 10 years as a Certified Matchmaker, owning my own company, and introducing vetted quality singles, I have some updated tips for you…

For more than nine years, I’ve taken live feedback calls the day after a first-date introduction. And I'll be honest, it's not always good. With only one ch…

Being purposeful is admirable. Being restrictive can be off-putting. What kind of dater are you? When we as humans are goal setting and results-oriented...

Sure, it’s true when Certified Matchmakers interview an eligible single, we cover all the parameters - age range, height, body type, education, career…

As a straight ally working hard to own and operate an LGBTQ matchmaking company, I have always engaged in annual PRIDE celebrations to support the community. This year looked a bit different...

Stop literally counting the passing or passed weeks, the days, the missed events, or holiday norms. Just stop. And wake up to a new day, with new determination, and start looking FORWARD. Decide today that you're either committing to…

For more than seven years, I have interviewed, talked to, listened to, met with, became friends with, cheered on, consoled, and encouraged thousands of LGBTQ singles, from ages 20s to 70s. Love is not a day on the calendar…

Setting your intention to find love in the new year is something I annually encourage all singles to do. But it does not always result in a smooth, steady or speedy journey…