H4M Blog

#LeadWithLove

Jan 2, 2020

Setting your intention to find love in the new year is something I annually encourage all singles to do. But it does not always result in a smooth, steady or speedy journey…

How a Shy Lesbian can Slay a Meetup

May 30, 2019

Hurry folks, as you may not have heard...Meetup is having a hard time getting folks to actually show up at events. That’s right. The online social site for meeting like-minded people has...

Your Intention for 2019?

Dec 4, 2018

This time last year, I remember vividly hearing folks refer to their intention for the new year. The word "intention" was rolling off tongues as the newest and hottest mantra. What was…

Another Gay Single Matched and Married!

Nov 17, 2017

Nothing beats a certified matchmaker’s voicemail, email, or live announcement to learn that a current or former client got engaged—or even married! That’s how this particular Matchmaker Mon…

Love Can Change YOUR World in a Moment

Sep 26, 2017

But what do I know? I’ve only been a proponent for more traditional introductions, courting, and dating, since, well since, forever. I’m a romantic at heart I guess? But I’m also pretty pra…

Gay Matchmaking: It’s Never too Late to Find Love

Jul 26, 2017

Too many times, in the last five years, I have talked to an eligible gay single, who told me, “I had just given up on finding someone. I assumed I would be alone forever.” In the past, they…

Find Your Mantra

May 22, 2017

What may your mantra be? Whether it is related to love, happiness, or career and success; sometimes just putting the energy out into the world can bring it back to you tenfold...

What You Seek

Jan 30, 2017

For those of us who are driven, waking up each day is the opportunity to go for what we truly want for ourselves. Whether it’s related to career, passion, our interests, for our...

Fall... In Love (again)

Nov 2, 2016

You are never too young or too old to fall for the one who deserves your heart. It doesn’t mean that we’re perfect. Or that they are. But we are all human. And deserving of love...

Own Who You Are Today

Aug 19, 2016

This evening, yet again, I wrap up an incoming business telephone call with a successful bachelor in his 50s. He’s driven, intelligent, caring, nice looking, and eligible. He’s...