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The attached picture says it all. We are getting married in the fall, after getting engaged February in Aspen. We owe it all to you guys - you’ve changed our lives. Thank you.

Bachelor, Massachusetts, 57

Thank you for helping us find each other.

Bachelorette, Colorado, 40

I love you all and am so excited to keep on moving forward!!!!

Bachelorette, Wisconsin, 55

It is with a great deal of gratitude that I let you know this past Thursday my last match and I said “I do” in front of a small circle of family and chosen family. We feel so lucky to have been introduced by you and forever making our lives better.

Bachelor, California, 43

How else would i have met these quality people without you?

Bachelor, AZ, 41

Tammy, I’ve really drilled down on your introduction rules, and totally agree. Essentially, no ex, no sex, no texts. Got it.

Bachelorette, DC, 60

My last match and I are doing great and are so appreciative of your kind, compassionate and processional services. It has changed our lives.

Bachelor, California, 52

This gives me hope. I appreciate how organized and professional the H4M team is.

Bachelor, Massachusetts, 36

After hearing all about her, I could almost cry. She sounds like everything I have been wanting to meet for so long. Thank you for the time you take to tell us about each other. Please don’t tell her how excited I am to meet her, but I am.

Bachelorette, Colorado, 41

All of the verbal communications that I have with Tammy are so authentic and classy. Her wording and explanations of details enchant the way you want to feel about a potential match.

Bachelorette, Minnisota, 55

Even at this early juncture in our engagement, I can tell you clearly what sets your matchmaking service apart from anyone who would like to be considered a competitor of yours. That is class and elegance.

Bachelorette, DC, 53

I really appreciate the background checks and your thorough vetting process.

Bachelorette, Illinois, 30

I truly appreciate the personalized service. I know the H4M team is looking out for me.

Bachelorette, Pennsylvania, 44

It truly was my pleasure to meet Tammy. What a fun conversation and interview!

Bachelor, Texas, 31

We definitely had a connection! Thank you so much. You guys are the best. :)

Bachelorette, Michigan, 47

Can you put things on pause for a little while? I want to see where this match goes before meeting anyone new.

Bachelor, DC, 35

He sounds great. I am already enjoying this new journey. Thank you for this. I appreciate all that you do. I’m excited to meet him.

Bachelor, Florida, 53

I’m so excited about this process. You come at everything with a fresh set of eyes. You have such a passion for this, I can tell.

Bachelorette, California, 32

I look at this as a growth opportunity and a new phase of my life.

Bachelor, South Carolina, 40

It has been a delight working with Tammy, I have learned so much about myself and what I am seeking.

Bachelorette, Arizona, 44

I tell everyone how amazing Tammy is.

Bachelor, Georgia, 40

I think I just met my husband, that was how I walked away.

Bachelor, South Carolina, 45

It was great, felt organic, setting intentions, being present.

Bachelorette, Oklahoma, 37

It was simply BEAUTIFUL.

Bachelor, Illinois, 31

All my senses are running wild.

Bachelorette, Massachusetts, 60

The moment Tammy told me about him, my little voice said this is it

Bachelor, Virginia, 48

Wow. This was amazing.

Bachelorette, Washington, 44

This has been my first quality date for a long time, thank you.

Bachelorette, New Jersey, 56

I respect the process. This was a real introduction.

Bachelor, North Carolina, 40

Tammy, you must know how great you are.

Bachelor, Maryland, 30

Thank you, you all are the best, I simply love talking to you all.

Bachelorette, DC, 50

We will take it from here

Bachelorette, Florida, 34

I had great time, nice French restaurant. We talked, enjoyed several hours together with wine and a nice kiss.

Bachelorette, California, 50

I must say I am pretty fond of him already.

Bachelor, Texas, 40

The date was great, frankly I was little surprised! What a quality introduction.

Bachelorette, NY, 40

Thank you so much, I cant thank you all enough, I am so grateful.

Bachelor, Florida, 53

I just wanted to drop you a note to say thank you for your professionalism and care.

Bachelorette, New York, 55

I enjoy your vibe, like the questions you ask, they help me really outline my relationship vision board.

Bachelorette, California, 50

Tammy, I’ve really drilled down on your introduction rules, and totally agree. Essentially, no ex, no sex, no texts. Got it.

Bachelor, Illinois, 60

Tammy, I have to tell you. I admire the work that you do. It is not easy. I like that you stay on it, that you persevere. Every time you call, so determined. This helps us (singles/clients) get more clear on what we want, and what we don’t want. We grow and mature in that space. So do not ever give up. You are doing great work. You should share with your new clients that this is a process where we both will learn and grow. I am getting more clear. I am learning what I want, what attracts me. I love the process. It’s great that you do it. From my side, make sure you tell your team, don't give up, it keeps people growing and smiling.

Florida Bachelor, 48

It (the Zoom interview) was a beautiful discussion and I'm looking forward to working with Tammy.

South Carolina Bachelorette, 65

I could never have imagined that my enrollment in H4M and meeting you would forever change my life.

Minnesota Bachelorette, 28

Love you guys during this tough time!

California Bachelor, 63

It was a great first date. He was easy to talk to and left enough for me to want a second date with this quality bachelor.

Nebraska Bachelor, 28

I think what you do is great, a great service.

Illinois Bachelorette, 61

The venue was great had the most gorgeous patio. Thank you, Lauri, for finding such a spectacular spot.

Minnesota Bachelorette, 25

You all (at H4M) are amazing! Your attention to detail is superb.

Texas Bachelor, 50

You (Tammy) are so soft, kind, and caring. It put me at ease and really let me think about the questions for my life long partner.

Washington D.C. Bachelor, 48

We hit it off early on! There was so much to talk about – Tammy nailed it with this quality lady.

Louisiana Bachelor, 34

I can’t really find the words to express my gratitude for introducing me to him.

Florida Bachelor, 40

Whoa, when she (my match) popped in, I thought “Way to go, Tammy!”

New York Bachelorette, 36

We had such a great day date. From renting kayaks to touring a local picnic area, what a great date experience!

New York Bachelorette, 38

Your insight, persistence, and kindness has forever changed my life for the better. I am deeply grateful.

Florida Bachelorette, 33

I will be forever indebted to you.

Illinois Bachelor, 36

We both feel so very blessed.

Washington Bachelorette, 48

You have been a dear gift to me, giving me hope and showing me what sort of love story could be possible for me. I will always be grateful for what I learned about myself in speaking with you and exploring what sort of partner I hope to spend my life with, and who I could also be to her.

California Bachelorette, 28

Thank you truly for offering me the opportunity to join the beautiful family you have created and for welcoming queer singles into loving relationships with peers on every core level. You are our gift from God and I pray Her blessing upon you and your own marriage abundantly beyond all you can ask or imagine!

Minnesota Bachelor, 40

Thanks for always being so amazing! I truly appreciate your patience, flexibility, and caring.

California Bachelor, 68

This has been well worth the financial investment, tenfold.

Washington DC Bachelorette, 49

I have met more quality ladies during my time with H4M than with years of online dating.

New York Bachelorette, 55

You guys are such good supporters. This whole process has made such a difference in my life.

North Carolina Bachelor, 41

I simply love your whole team, value them, and I appreciate all the work on my behalf. It truly shows.

Illinois Bachelorette, 43

I value all of you and really appreciate how you always look out for me!

California Bachelorette, 37

We have a lot in common and he seems like a very good guy! I’m sure we’ll continue talking and see where it goes from here. I will keep you posted!

Colorado Bachelor, 57

We were there over two hours and it felt like we could have talked longer. I can’t wait to see her again!

Massachusetts Bachelorette, 46

I really like him! Oh, so handsome. He’s hitting all my buttons!

Texas Bachelor, 39

It was an absolute pleasure talking to Tammy. I enjoyed the interview, and can tell she cares.

Texas Bachelor, 58

I think the date went really well! We had a really great conversation and shared some fantastic family stories. I hope to meet him again soon.

Georgia Bachelor, 43

We met the next day again and took a beautiful stroll in the city. What a catch!

Minnesota Bachelorette, 41

The date was great, wonderful actually. Tons of things to talk about, engaging conversation, a homerun for sure.

California Bachelorette, 69

A perfectly well-balanced night with such a stimulating, attractive, quality woman.

Massachusetts Bachelorette, 38

I think about our meeting every day! I happened to meet a guy who lives in San Antonio. We went on one date and it was great. I took a lot of what you said about first dates in mind, and he wants another one, so we’ll see what happens!

Texas Bachelor, 33

Thank you so much for all you do. This has been a great experience.

Virginia Bachelor, 46

He was most handsome bachelor! Wow!

California Bachelor, 44

The date felt very natural sharing appetizers and a glass of wine. The time flew by and ended with a kiss and hug. Thank you, Tammy and H4M, for taking the pressure out of dating – I had a great time with a quality woman.

California Bachelorette, 30

The skills that you shared with us at that event really helped us learn how to approach men at mixers and introduce ourselves. My friend has gotten so much better at meeting men.

Texas Bachelor, 35

I really loved meeting with you all, and learned so much from you in our short meeting! Took your advice about short and sweet first dates, and going to apply that everywhere I go!

Illinois Bachelor, 25

I’ve been thinking about you two at least once a week since my birthday. I am truly ready to start a relationship that will last a lifetime, and I keep coming back to how much I think you can help me.

Texas Bachelor, 28

Thanks for everything Tammy. I am lucky to have you as a matchmaker and advocate.

Colorado Bachelor, 45

I said to her, “You're beautiful.” She responded, “Well, thank you - as are you.”

California Bachelorette, 35

It’s so good to talk to you. You are really the only person I can talk to about dating. I just feel better with every phone call.

Washington Bachelor, 40

I am so excited to be working with H4M. I love the energy and connection. I truly believe you understand me and what I am seeking.

Massachusetts Bachelorette, 40

Thank you so much. I am learning so much about myself through this process. I have enjoyed every date so far and appreciate all that you do. It's amazing.

Texas Bachelorette, 30

My match was so easy to talk to. All went incredibly well. Easy conversation. We had a whole lot in common. Tons and tons! More than I could ever imagine.

Texas Bachelor, 27

My experience was so professional and warm, that I am excited to be matched by H4M soon. Thanks again for the personal attention, as well as what you ladies are doing.

Florida Bachelor, 52

You guys are unbelievable. You just keep calling me, even when I'm having a hard time - wanting me to be happy. I just can't believe how much you care. I really appreciate it. You're too much. I get hopeful every time we talk. Thank you.

Minnesota Bachelor, 48

I can’t tell you how grateful I am that you are out there, and doing this for all of us. I really can’t put into words how grateful I am. I don’t go to bars, I don’t go online, I’m not very social really, and I love my job. Thank you for these introductions.

Texas Bachelorette, 50

I already invited him out again with me! I couldn’t wait - I am excited to see him again soon.

Illinois Bachelor, 40

My very good friend assured me that meeting someone through such an upstanding company as what H4M provides was a brilliant idea. He is familiar with your organization and feels your standards and ethics are exceptional.

California Bachelor, 42

H4M Matchmaking is a really great service for the LGBT community. As a woman in her 50s dating, I found the service to be professional, sophisticated, and tailored to me. I love you guys!

Massachusetts Bachelorette, 52

You did as well as we can probably do. Don’t know how ya’ll can get more specific. Gave me exactly what I wanted. It just comes down to me from here.

Texas Bachelor, 55

I just want you to know I feel blessed to have found H4M. Tammy, you are really good at this; you are good at what you do. I think it's important for you to know that.

Texas Bachelor, 33

The date lasted four hours! It was great – I found her attractive and our conversation ran so smoothly. I cannot wait to connect again!

Ohio Bachelorette, 46

After my date this weekend, and because of H4M, I am convinced there really are good, quality singles out there. Now, that’s a very good feeling! Thank you, ladies, for all you have done for me so far.

New York Bachelorette, 63

I never regret meeting any of the men H4M introduces me too. All of the men I have met were quality men. And going through the process helped me define what I want in a partner.

Texas Bachelor, 48

I do understand the realism of looking for the right guy and going past physical perfection. All of the men have been decent quality guys; I think you have vetted well. So my hope is still up for finding the right person.

Texas Bachelor, 36

I want to thank you for thinking of me in introducing me to her. I found her to be attractive, intelligent, and witty!

Florida Bachelorette, 46

I could tell from the beginning, Tammy, that you are transparent, respectful, and on top of it.

Illinois Bachelorette, 41

I have no question or doubt that you guys are wonderful and know your business. In fact I’ve sung your praises to several people already who are interested in a professional gay dating service. From our Skype interview, I’ve started back at the gym and begun to look at men in a more open light. Thank you.

Texas Bachelor, 45

I had a GREAT time. I LOVED the process of what you do, and I had a great experience overall. I told some friends and said you guys have the overall fix-up blind date process down, and it was perfect. Love to do it again.

Texas Bachelor, 35
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