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What Our Clients Are Saying

I do understand the realism of looking for the right guy and going past physical perfection. All of the men have been decent quality guys; I think you have vetted well. So my hope is still up for finding the right person.
Dallas Bachelor
36
My very good friend assured me that meeting someone through such an upstanding company as what H4M provides was a brilliant idea. He is familiar with your organization and feels your standards and ethics are exceptional.
San Francisco Bachelor
42
It’s so good to talk to you. You are really the only person I can talk to about dating. I just feel better with every phone call.
Seattle Bachelor
40
I just want you to know this has been a great experience so far. Because of you, Tammy, I am more active in my community, more active in my lifestyle, and have gained such confidence. Thank you, Tammy @ H4M, for what promises to be a fantastic 2018.
Texas Bachelorette
47
The date felt very natural sharing appetizers and a glass of wine. The time flew by and ended with a kiss and hug. Thank you, Tammy and H4M, for taking the pressure out of dating – I had a great time with a quality woman.
Los Angeles Bachelorette
35
H4M Matchmaking is a really great service for the LGBT community. As a woman in her 50s dating, I found the service to be professional, sophisticated, and tailored to me. I love you guys!
Boston Bachelorette
52
[My match and I] talk every night. It’s my birthday. I’m going there. He’s got a whole weekend planned for me. I’m taking your advice to heart; we need people in our lives that are different from us. I’ve introduced him to all of the important people in my life; all good. This could be exciting for him and me in the future.
North Carolina Bachelor
58
Headline is that I liked him and would be interested to see where this goes. In particular, I liked his sense of humor and general thoughtfulness about the world.
California Bachelor
35
I am so excited to be working with H4M. I love the energy and connection. I truly believe you understand me and what I am seeking.
Boston Bachelorette
40
I found him to be mature and yet easy to talk to, sophisticated, and interesting. He was also attractive, and I couldn’t keep my eyes off him! What a wonderful date.
Texas Bachelor
30
(My match and I) Had a fabulous first date on Friday. He’s a great match. We exchanged numbers, and I definitely would like a second date.
Texas Bachelor
24
I really loved meeting with you all, and learned so much from you in our short meeting! Took your advice about short and sweet first dates, and going to apply that everywhere I go!
Chicago Bachelor
25
Thanks for everything Tammy. I am lucky to have you as a matchmaker and advocate.
Denver Bachelor
45
I want to thank you for thinking of me in introducing me to her. I found her to be attractive, intelligent, and witty!
Tampa Bachelorette
46
The date lasted four hours! It was great – I found her attractive and our conversation ran so smoothly. I cannot wait to connect again!
Bachelorette
46
You did as well as we can probably do. Don’t know how ya’ll can get more specific. Gave me exactly what I wanted. It just comes down to me from here.
Ft. Worth Bachelor
55
My experience was so professional and warm, that I am excited to be matched by H4M soon. Thanks again for the personal attention, as well as what you ladies are doing.
Miami Bachelor
52
Thank you so much for your professionalism and expertise. I was happy to get your email this morning. Have a great day and weekend!
Texas Bachelor
33
I can’t tell you how grateful I am that you are out there, and doing this for all of us. I really can’t put into words how grateful I am. I don’t go to bars, I don’t go online, I’m not very social really, and I love my job. Thank you for these introductions.
Austin Single
50
I already invited him out again with me! I couldn’t wait - I am excited to see him again soon.
Chicago Bachelor
40
There was definitely a shared chemistry between us, with a kiss at the end of the evening. I look forward to seeing him again soon. Thank you, Tammy and H4M, for this wonderful date.
New York Bachelor
50
He is lovely, and I’m glad I met him. And I am greatly appreciative of you arranging our first two dates.
New York Bachelor
48
I am completely sold on the matchmaking process. I am very tired of online dating, which has been very unsuccessful and unfruitful.
Ohio Bachelor
65
I never regret meeting any of the men H4M introduces me too. All of the men I have met were quality men. And going through the process helped me define what I want in a partner.
Texas Single
48
The skills that you shared with us at that event really helped us learn how to approach men at mixers and introduce ourselves. My friend has gotten so much better at meeting men.
Houston Bachelor
35
Thank you for your call to tell me about him. Thank you for putting a smile on my face today. I look forward to meeting him (my next match).
West Coast Matchmaking Client
58
You guys are unbelievable. You just keep calling me, even when I'm having a hard time - wanting me to be happy. I just can't believe how much you care. I really appreciate it. You're too much. I get hopeful every time we talk. Thank you.
St Paul Bachelor
48
My match was so easy to talk to. All went incredibly well. Easy conversation. We had a whole lot in common. Tons and tons! More than I could ever imagine.
Austin Bachelor
27
I love that you guys check in on me. I think this is a great service.
Alabama Bachelor
55
After my date this weekend, and because of H4M, I am convinced there really are good, quality singles out there. Now, that’s a very good feeling! Thank you, ladies, for all you have done for me so far.
New York City Bachelorette
63
I said to her, “You're beautiful.” She responded, “Well, thank you - as are you.”
Los Angeles Bachelorette
35
The date was very good. So easy to talk to. All went well. Easy conversation. We had a whole lot in common. Tons and tons! More than I could ever imagine.
Austin Bachelor
27
I just want you to know I feel blessed to have found H4M. Tammy, you are really good at this; you are good at what you do. I think it's important for you to know that.
Houston Bachelor
33
Thank you so much. I am learning so much about myself through this process. I have enjoyed every date so far and appreciate all that you do. It's amazing.
Houston Single
30
She is smart, articulate, and attractive. The venue was perfect and our date lasted four hours. I look forward to seeing her again.
Florida Bachelorette
40
While I didn’t meet him through you, I would have never been able and ready to meet him without all you have done for me. I’m with a guy who chooses me back, has the same goals, and wants the same things.
Oklahoma Bachelor
46
I will say, he is what I could consider a perfect match, so fantastic job there. And even if things don’t work out for us, I’m completely sold on H4M. I tell everyone about it.
Texas Bachelor
24
I want to see her again and she wants to see me again. You are the best, Tammy. Thank you for all you do for me.
Texas Bachelorette
43
What a great date with a quality bachelorette! I can take it from here, Tammy. Thank you for introducing me to her.
New York Bachelorette
44
We had a lovely time together! The restaurant was new and trendy - we enjoyed some unique appetizers and wine pairings. We both look forward to seeing each other again.
New York Bachelor
31
Hey gals! I just want to say a huge thank you for letting me be a part of H4M :) I just got the voicemail now! Y'all are so talented and awesome.
Texas Bachelor
35
I have no question or doubt that you guys are wonderful and know your business. In fact I’ve sung your praises to several people already who are interested in a professional gay dating service. From our Skype interview, I’ve started back at the gym and begun to look at men in a more open light. Thank you.
Dallas Entrepreneur
45
I could tell from the beginning, Tammy, that you are transparent, respectful, and on top of it.
Chicago Lesbian Single
41
I absolutely loved her sense of humor – I haven’t laughed so much on a first date in a long time. We were so well matched; from interests, to sense of humor, and everywhere in between. You were right about her, Tammy. Thank you for introducing us.
California Bachelorette
45
Thanks for the time and attention and experience. I honestly sit and wait with impatient direction from God through you.
Ecuador Bachelor
37
H4M is something that I really believe would work well for me. It is the type of coaching that I have been missing and could very well be the missing link for me as to why I am not meeting the type of men that are appropriate for me as I feel so ready to be in a relationship. Additionally, the connection I felt and the strong convictions that you have about what you are doing are so very impressive.
New York Bachelor
43
Without this experience I would have never been open to meeting anyone good for me. I have grown so much since starting with you, through feedback and coaching.
Texas Bachelor
46
The date felt very natural sharing appetizers and a glass of wine. The time flew by and ended with a kiss and hug. Thank you, Tammy and H4M, for taking the pressure out of dating – I had a great time with a quality woman.
Los Angeles Bachelorette
30
I’ve been thinking about you two at least once a week since my birthday. I am truly ready to start a relationship that will last a lifetime, and I keep coming back to how much I think you can help me.
Austin Bachelor
28
Our date was fun, exciting, and completely out of the ordinary. Playing ping pong and having a few bites was a great way to get to know her, without the anxiety of a formal date. Thank you, Tammy and H4M, for making this experience FUN - and not stressful at all.
Florida Bachelorette
40
You and the ladies are so professional and really understand what we go through in dating. I've met quality bachelors, and everyone has been great.
Mexico Bachelor
50
I’ve met my goal and lost the weight. (90 lbs!) I’m thankful that I hired you (as my matchmaker) because it was the catalyst I needed to get back in shape, and get back to being healthy. I’m really thankful that I did it. I feel so much better. Now I’m ready.
San Antonio Bachelor
33
I had a GREAT time. I LOVED the process of what you do, and I had a great experience overall. I told some friends and said you guys have the overall fix-up blind date process down, and it was perfect. Love to do it again.
Dallas Bachelor
35
I think about our meeting every day! I happened to meet a guy who lives in San Antonio. We went on one date and it was great. I took a lot of what you said about first dates in mind, and he wants another one, so we’ll see what happens!
Austin Bachelor
33
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Philosophy #
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