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Three Bloopers on a First Date

For more than nine years, I’ve taken live feedback calls the day after a first-date introduction. And I'll be honest, it's not always good. With only one ch…

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Dating With Intention Not Intensity

Being purposeful is admirable. Being restrictive can be off-putting. What kind of dater are you? When we as humans are goal setting and results-oriented in our professional and personal life, does it appropriately transfer to our dating style? Can humans control everything? Is there a higher power at work to make things come true for you, sometimes even greater than the goals you had set for yourself? Do you believe in the difference between purpose and power?

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My Favorite Zoom During PRIDE – Not What You Think

As a straight ally working hard to own and operate an LGBTQ matchmaking company, I have always engaged in annual PRIDE celebrations to support the community. This year looked a bit different...

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Single During Shelter in Place Even as It Lifts – The Plan

Stop literally counting the passing or passed weeks, the days, the missed events, or holiday norms. Just stop. And wake up to a new day, with new determination, and start looking FORWARD. Decide today that you're either committing to…

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It’s Just One Day – And You Are Not Alone

For more than seven years, I have interviewed, talked to, listened to, met with, became friends with, cheered on, consoled, and encouraged thousands of LGBTQ singles, from ages 20s to 70s. Love is not a day on the calendar…

H4M Matchmakers Help LGBTQ+ Singles Date With Confidence During COVID

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Why It's High Time To Consider Using A Matchmaker

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Match Introduces a Human Matchmaking Element to Its Dating App

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The Dos and Don’ts of Dating in the Workplace

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