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Dating With Intention Not Intensity

Being purposeful is admirable. Being restrictive can be off-putting. What kind of dater are you? When we as humans are goal setting and results-oriented in our professional and personal life, does it appropriately transfer to our dating style? Can humans control everything? Is there a higher power at work to make things come true for you, sometimes even greater than the goals you had set for yourself? Do you believe in the difference between purpose and power?

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Seeking: Interesting and Interested

Sure, it’s true when Certified Matchmakers interview an eligible single, we cover all the parameters - age range, height, body type, education, career. You bet. But then we take it a step further and dig deeper than an online dating website or app ever could. We drill down to the most compatible factors or indicators: key qualities and values. After eight years and thousands of interviews, a single phrase stands out to me as the most striking descriptor. An eligible single said to me just days ago, “I'm seeking interesting and interested” and a light bulb went off.

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My Favorite Zoom During PRIDE – Not What You Think

As a straight ally working hard to own and operate an LGBTQ matchmaking company, I have always engaged in annual PRIDE celebrations to support the community. This year looked a bit different...

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Single During Shelter in Place Even as It Lifts – The Plan

Stop literally counting the passing or passed weeks, the days, the missed events, or holiday norms. Just stop. And wake up to a new day, with new determination, and start looking FORWARD. Decide today that you're either committing to…

How Men Should Dress for a First Date In 2021

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Real-life Bennifers Find Happy Endings After Years Apart

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H4M’s Tammy Shaklee Offers Post-Pandemic Dating Tips for LGBTQ Professionals

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Will Quarantine Relationships Be Coming To An End?

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