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the gay & lesbian matchmaker


How many potential matches do you have in your system?

For years, more than 3,000 quality LGBTQ singles have been active in the H4M database.

Will I only meet other H4M clients?

We will pair you with both H4M clients and specific compatible singles we have sought out on your behalf. But everyone we match and introduce has been through the same approval process of a personal interview and criminal background check. Each was seeking or open to a professional gay matchmaking service.

How much does it cost to be an H4M Matchmaking Client?

Depending on your location, we offer a few different packages that range in price. Packages are in the thousands—but not the tens of thousands. We work with you to make it affordable for most professionals, with a payment process if needed.

What age range are your Matchmaking Clients?

We originally anticipated working with clients between the ages of 30 and 50. But we’ve worked with clients in their early 20s all the way to late 70s.

What type of gay singles do you have?

H4M guarantees introductions of quality and eligible gay singles, who are also seeking a long-term and monogamous relationship. Clients range in a variety of ages, ethnicities, education levels, professions, and interests.

What is different about H4M Matchmaking?

As a true offline and personal service, a human team is always working for you. As a result, the structure, dating rules, and management of the introduction are designed with busy professionals in mind. In fact, we’re the only company that manages the first two dates and offers a verbal feedback process in between. We also provide unlimited coaching for our clients.

Philosophy #5

Offline matchmaking requires human interaction and compatibility based on key values and personal qualities.