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Will I only meet other H4M clients?

We will pair you with both H4M clients and specific compatible singles we have sought out on your behalf. But everyone we match and introduce has been through the same approval process of a personal interview and criminal background check.

What is different about H4M Matchmaking?

As a true offline and personal service, a human team is always working for you. As a result, the structure, dating rules, and management of the introduction are designed with busy professionals in mind. In fact, we’re the only company that manages the first two dates and offers a verbal feedback process in between. We also provide unlimited dating coaching for our clients to become their personal best.

What type of singles will I meet?

H4M introduces quality, vetted eligible singles seeking a long-term, sustainable, and committed relationship. Clients range in a variety of ages, ethnicities, education levels, professions, and interests.

What age range are your Matchmaking Clients?

We work with clients ranging from their early 20s to late 70s. You can find love in any decade of your life.

How many potential matches do you have in your system?

For years, thousands of quality gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and queer singles have been active in the H4M database. These qualified singles live all over the United States and numerous other countries.

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"After my date this weekend, and because of H4M, I am convinced there really are good, quality singles out there. Now, that’s a very good feeling! Thank you, ladies, for all you have done for me so far."- New York Bachelorette, 63
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Offline matchmaking requires human interaction and compatibility based on key values and personal qualities.