Our Matchmaking Process

Our Matchmaking Process

H4M Clients are selected after a multi-tiered private one-on-one screening process, including background checks; designed exclusively for select gay professional men. Your matchmaker is in the business of working for you, so the process will begin with the first call or email inquiry. More than three months of confidential focus group interviews with sophisticated gay professional men helped refine the matchmaking assessment for potential clients.

  1. Contact us through this website or give us a call on our toll free line to talk directly with one of our professional matchmakers.
  2. Initial Call: For men seeking a long-term relationship, we will discuss lifestyle, dating history, personalities, family history, and personal and professional goals.
  3. Personal Interview: Qualified candidates will be invited to H4M offices for a personal interview or for bachelor candidates out of state we can conduct an interview via Skype.
  4. Approval: Approved candidates may then be invited to become a client of our exclusive matchmaking service, following background checks.
  5. Review Potential Matches: With the matchmaking process being completely offline and discreet, H4M Clients will receive personal customer service with phone calls to discuss potential matches.
  6. Introductory Dates: Once potential matches mutually approve, your H4M matchmaker will coordinate all arrangements for the introductory date, and confirm and coordinate your introductory date time and location with a courtesy confirmation email followed by a day-of reminder call.
  7. Post 1st Date Follow Up: After each date, both men will call to provide feedback with their matchmaker, continuing the personal service experience, and refining the matchmaking process.
  8. 2nd Date Coordination: With the first date generally being an introductory happy hour, the second date is usually dinner or an activity. H4M is the only matchmaking company to coordinate both the first and second date with each new bachelor.

Contact us with your inquiry today. He’s For Me was designed just for you. Give us a call toll-free at 855.443.7463 or contact us online.

 

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