Own Who You Are Today
Aug 19, 2016This evening, yet again, I wrap up an incoming business telephone call with a successful bachelor in his 50s. He’s driven, intelligent, caring, nice looking, and eligible. He’s...
H4M Blog
Ten Things to Know When Hiring a Matchmaker
Jul 15, 2016At the risk of revealing a matchmaker’s trade secrets, I can no longer stand by with you out there wondering how matchmaking can make a difference in your life. I live it. I do...
Love Is My Religion
Jun 16, 2016A journalist once interviewed me for one hour to discuss my journey in now being known in my industry (of certified matchmakers) as the Gay Matchmaker...
Driving Away (Negative Head Talk)
Apr 26, 2016Takes one to know one. You’ve heard it. So I’ll remind you that I was a matchmaking client. That’s right. I, too, wanted someone to please just find the good guys, and call me...
Say Goodbye to March Madness
Apr 6, 2016If you have ever lived in West Texas (or Northwest Oklahoma), you know that spring is really known for one irritating and unavoidable thing. Wind. Spring unleashes direct pole...
Rebooting Your Love Life in 2016
Mar 9, 2016As I sit to write this, I feel like an investigative reporter. With the afternoon shower, I’ve escaped to the Solarium on Brilliance of the Seas, Royal Caribbean’s “adult” pool...
The Man You Date. Wait, I Mean Marry… Continued.
Feb 5, 2016To recap:There’s a difference between the man you “date” and the man you would marry. As I said, “Gentlemen, if it seems and feels and makes you wonder if it’s too good to be true? It...
The Man You Date. Wait, I Mean Marry.
Jan 27, 2016Yes, gentlemen. There is often a difference. An important distinction. Not everything in life is black and white. In most things, there is some grey area. And I guess that could apply...
You Never Know Who You’ll Meet
Dec 14, 2015It’s the Holiday Season. Parties, toasts, special programs, gatherings, and expectations to make it a memorable one. Especially in light of all going on in the world. We all seek...
7 Bad Topics on a First Date
Jun 17, 2015You’ve done it. You’ve landed that cup of coffee or happy hour drink with a guy who just might be the one. Now you simply hope to find the right shirt, a great parking spot, and that he’s...
